I'm a happy FlyWife...been through flight school and the whole nine yards...he's been an FO for five years and we have four kids! Its tough sometimes, but totally do-able. AND if your Hubby is committed to you, its not a problem to have a relationship with a pilot!
Its finally starting to pay off a bit, and life will keep getting better as the kids get older, pay increases, seniority increases...etc. The first year SUCKED, and second wasnt much better....but so worth it! The perks are amazing...and I am so grateful for them as I was able to go back and forth to see my mom before she died...
Good luck to you guys!