Here, I'll answer this whole thread for ya in one or two lines...

Pilots who have worked at "legit" regionals and have done their best to raise the bar (or at least hold the line) will think you're a scumbag. People working at gojet, or sympathetic to stabbing others in the back for personal gain will tell you that you have to "do what you need to feed your family" and make excuses for you.

There ya go.