Many of you going through a divorce will be dealing with a vindictive ex. I dealt with one who was hell-bent on erasing me from our son's life. If that's you, you need to be ready. I blog about this common form of child abuse at Brainwashing Children.

As others have posted, make sure you get a variable possession order or Airline Pilot Possession Order through your family court, as an arrangement that works for a 9-to-5 career will not work for ours...