Are you referring to the first class deadhead seat policy for cockpit? If so, it's only 40 years overdue.
7576FO, you're a MIA guy, right? I have to say, I have never seen anything close to what you are describing from our DFW FA's. It might be a cultural/base thing. If that's the case, time to set them straight but pack your own lunch.
When I was on the MD-11, the FA's always asked if they could use bunk #2, and 9 out of 10 times, CA says "no prob." I think maybe once they helped themselves, and the CA put them straight.
Zero probs so far on the 777, although I am leery about what we'll see on the 777-300 as we get more of them. That cockpit crew rest area is like a studio apartment; 2 huge bunks and two seats, and also awesomely quiet. I've already had more than one ask to "take a look" at the area. If it's pure curiosity, fine. I haven't had one ask to use it, let alone help themselves yet. If the time comes when they do ask the CA, so long as he checks with us other pilots, it'd be no problem with me.