If the girl is worth marrying then put the job on hold. Most girls dream about their wedding since they are 6 years old, so if you really like the girl, don't half ass it. Don't get me wrong, a person's career is VERY important, but it's not everything, so don't give everything for it. There are lots of airline pilots on this message board. Read their posts and then notice how many of them seem like unhappy people. Quite a few, huh? The airline job isn't everything, so don't treat it like it is.