I was just saying CAL as a rhetorical example. I wasn't looking to go point-for-point on what it's really like your first year.

My point was, there is suck-age on both sides of the fence. You're right...the QOL probably IS better, depending on how you look at it. My post was simply saying that the grass is not necessarily greener.

I worked with numerous Reservists at my last job who flew for Delta, FedEx, JetBlue, and American, and I listened intently to what they said at the bar about all aspects of the airline lifestyle. I read up as much as I can, and participate in the forums here -- I feel like I have a decent handle on how things are at the Majors versus how things are on active duty for a fighter guy. I recognize that there are low points staying on active duty (hell, I'm writing this post while sitting at Bagram in my 4th month of deployment). I also recognize that there are things that staying in offer me that the gig at the Majors can't. For me, the indicators are pointing slightly toward staying in...so, that's what I'm doing.

I think and re-think the decision I've made every day, and the answer that's best for me, today, is to stay in. Maybe I'll regret that decision, maybe not. Again, if it were 10 years ago and the pay and work rules were different, it would be a no-brainer for me. I'd all ready be a civilian and hopefully working for a Major. I want to be sitting on the beach at SXM as well someday.

If getting out was right for you, then great! I don't second guess anybody's decision to stay or go. The fact of the matter is that I hope to fly with some of you when I try and get to the Majors in the future.