It sounds harsh, but think about it:

---weak-willed aka some guys just can't help themselves, even after the union has put out emails asking them to fly SOP and don't clean in front of pax
---lacking self-respect aka we are highly trained, highly experienced professionals, and gloving up, dumpster diving and impeding the deplaning of pax is embarrassing to yourself and our profession. I cringe when I see it from the cabin.

Not a personal attack, no bad attitude here, just calling it how it is.

Until we are all on board and rowing the same direction we won't get a CBA. It's behavior like this (in addition to others) that is standing in the way. Something to consider.