Sorry to hear about this but.....

The good, no kids.

The bad, you're a WB Capt and she hasn't worked in 10 yrs.

If in MEM, I'd seek some advice from other Memphians; the big D attorney's in that town can smell blood in the water and ALL OF THEM have the same recipe for "FedEx wide body Capt." To them, it's easier than making pancakes.

Outside of MEM, YMMV....

It's hell bro but you get through it...