I'd be interested in knowing exactly what a "fairly amicable split" is, and in the whole history of the world, has there been more than one or two of them? Probably easier finding a unicorn at the Memphis zoo.

If you know Pat R, who was a widebody Captain, you might give him a call. I believe he underwent two or three of those divorce thingies.

Good luck with however you decide to proceed. You're going to need it.