The reason for the divorce may determine the alimony amount, depends on how public you want your private situation to become. Life should go on past a divorce but the internet allows discovering the reasons for divorcing with a click of a button. Public opinion says pilots cheat and can be abusive, as long as the divorce documents do not include anything you would rather keep out of the public eye, fight it. But, the public record could affect your future relationships depending on what your wife alleges.