Thanks for the input guys. Unfortunately our rotation is twelve days. I will try to rise above and "be nice", unfortunately these personality type see that as a sign of weakness.
One poster is correct....they come across as nice with certain captains, check airman, ect. Probably most condescending with FAs, treats them like they are 12 yo and 50 IQ.
We have a great pilot group and proactive management so I have confidence this will be resolved. This is NOT something they want going on. Its a FINE line when someone is filling out your upgrade forms.
Peace!