How much do you enjoy where you live? How much would you enjoy Charlotte? I was in the same situation. Moved my family from out west to Charlotte during indoc. I often think it may have been easier to stay where I was and two leg commute because we were close to family and really liked where we lived. Charlotte hasn't been my favorite place to live for several reasons, but that's all personal opinion. Also, I'm at 13 months on property and still won't have round 1 in CLT. Looking like 15+ right now.

Point is, if you have a family, take into account how much you would like living in Charlotte versus where you are now. I make the best of it, but I would face been just as happy to stay where I was and two leg commute to a line.