You’re kind of right. I used to be on point with knowing how to behave around women. I used to enjoy the flirtatious banter at work among other places. But with the advent of IG, tinder, #metoo, etc, I just don’t care to “act” in any way just to appease some thot at work.

The fact that you think you have to put on an “act” points to the very problem this thread is addressing; the disproportionate power FAs have over you despite having far less invested in their careers with little to no consequence regarding the authenticity of their claims.

Same is true for female pilots. I’ll drop a trip if I see that I’ll be sharing the cockpit with a female. Nothing personal. Nothing against her abilities. There are certain career problems that I want to stay LIGHTYEARS away from. DUI and false accusations come immediately to mind. I’ve worked way to hard to get blindsided by any of that.

Give them no opportunity.