Don’t think there is anything that fulfills all your criteria. LAS checks most, but not all, boxes.

Would also say RNO might check a few boxes, but again, not all. Same with Oregon.

One interesting option is Vancouver, WA. No state income tax, less costly housing. Drive across the bridge and shop in no-sales-tax-Oregon, commute out of PDX. Schools are an issue everywhere, unfortunately.

Forget anything in California.