.My ex burned me in every way. She called every office in town but two lawyers, obviously she had a better lawyer, she documented every thing, she lied and exaggerated as well.
She got the kids and the money. So there is some good advice on this thread you should follow. Because you can never underestimate a vindictive ex.
Don’t be like me and lose everything!!
But if you do lose everything like me:
Remember that after the loss of your kids, your assets, your loss of a family, the sense of guilt and failure. The feeling of wanting to eat a bullet and die—//—//—after all that passes divorce is the greatest thing in the world.
My ex is a fat cow now. I hit the gym after our divorce. I’ve had about 1000 years worth of married sex speaking quantitatively. I must have broken 10,000 years worth of married sex from a qualitative standpoint!!
I see my kids often (not an ideal amount but it’s better then it was)
I could not be happier!!
You will get through this brother. No matter what you can do it.