Thanks Kansas, regardless of what happens with this girl, I'm gonna chalk it up to experience and learn and improve from it. I'm pretty young and this was the first time I've ever really tried doing anything like this with a girl. Just having it go well was a success(Mac and Cheese is a complicated meal for me, but I made stir fry go well), but I want more and that's keeping me motivated and in pursuit.
I've realized, that as pilots we like clear and concise indicators, i.e annunciator lights, any instrument in a cockpit, etc. Maybe that's why we have problems interpreting these more subtle signs?