There are not as many women on this board as there are men, so I'll give my 2 cents. Not that anything has ever stopped me before. Another caveat: my perspective comes from 20+ years of marriage to the same man.

HoboPilot, before posting this, I checked your profile and note that you are only 19 years old. Plenty of time to meet all kinds of people, not necessarily the one you will marry. I noticed that you use the term "girl" versus kansas' use of "woman." It's probably an age thing, but I know you will one day find yourself a good woman and only after winnowing through lots of girls first. Trust me that you will know when you finally meet her.

Learn from each encounter. Learn about girls/women. Learn about yourself along the way. Be interested in people. Stay self-confident. Be funny and charming. Continue to improve yourself. Be sensitive to the people and the world around you. Slow down. Have fun.