So a few questions then:

1. Would you do it again?

2. What drove your decision to make the move?

3. Now that you’ve seen both what specific items do you like better and worse at each?

Not many people get to see both sides of the equation. Everything people know comes from “talking to their bros” not realizing that person is probably looking through rose colored glasses and failing to give the full story.

As my spouse once asked “do you think everyone you talk to is just telling you all the good parts only so that you go there and their seniority goes up as a result?”