Originally Posted by
Nordhavn
Some men like Traditional wives. Granted, they are hard to come by these days but they do exist. The way the courts incentivize women to destroy their own homes these days it doesn't matter if she works or not. YOU ARE GETTING SCREWED EITHER WAY!
If kids are in the mix, yeah the guy is getting screwed, especially if his job is anything like airlines, mil, etc.
But no kids, in many jurisdictions it comes down to who's the bigger earner... good female friend of mine is getting hosed as we speak because the kids are out, soon-to-be-ex-hubby got fired about ten years ago so he bounced between unemployment and low-key, low-pay jobs for a decade. She's the breadwinner so she pays... he gets one of the houses: the one SHE bought in the 90's when she and I lived together and dude wasn't even in the picture. No the divorce wasn't her idea.