I am still married to my first wife. We are still very much in love and thankful for one another. We are traditionalists. We despise feminism. Her more than me. It is our belief that it is one of the biggest lies foisted upon the west. My wife works a very light part time job so I am the breadwinner. She takes care of most of the household duties. Expectations are set by hundreds of years of hundreds and hundreds of years of tradition and our upbringing. Men are better at certain things and women are better at other things. We tend to stick to our lanes or strong suits. We believe women are far superior socially. Their social iq is vastly superior to a man's. Men tend to be more logical in their problem solving and don't let emotions drive outcomes as much as women do. At the end of the day we believe the man is the head of the household but it is not a dictatorship in any way shape or form. I used to buy into a lot of this post modern feminism crap when I was younger but age has given me clarity and I/we see it as terribly destructive to the family structure.