Yea, MPJ I hear you. But, funny thing is.....I once flew with a FO who had a wife with a spending problem and he lamented that he could never get any extra time. I told him I had some techniques and he was all ears. I proceeded to buy the beers and spend a couple of hours Swap board, swap a 3 day for a 9 day, blow though all ALV+15 governors, blind swaps, broken trips, DH's, on, and on, and on. All my greatest tips and tricks. At the end of it, his comment was not, "Thanks".... not, "Thanks for the beers"...but,.... "That sounds like too much trouble"

This type of thing happened more than once. Never underestimate some peoples unwillingness to learn, internalize lessons/input or be curious about things that can materially affect their life.

Something about a horse and water comes to mind. But I do understand your concern even though it was somewhat tongue in cheek