As a previous poster more or less said, it's not the job that causes problems, it's the wife. If you take the job before you get married, you can go for a test flight so to speak. If she can't handle it and wont marry you, then in my opinion, the relationship was conditional and your better off. If it works, then you my friend are a blessed man and I highly recommend spending your 7 off making sure she knows that you know that. The good ones are few and far between (jobs and wives) so choose both carefully!