It starts with walking up to the captain in the gate area and introducing yourself, not avoiding eye contact and hoping they come up and check on you 10 minutes before push.

This a common experience.

When I see 5 pilots loitering in the gate area and no one says “hi”, I assume they’re all on company deadheads or purchased tickets.

You’re the one asking for a favor.

Ask.

(Yes, I get tight connections. Your just-in-time commuting plans are not my problem).