I feel for you! It's amazing that single pilots are able to find a match these days given our line of work and the risk of all of this happening. On a brighter note, at least your not alone. The two of you may not be able to support each other financially, but you can help each other keep your spirits up anyway.

I always thought it would be nice to settle down with another pilot. Looking at it now though, I think it's a terrible idea if you are new to the industry. Starting of a new marriage with close to 200,000.00 in debt. I'm supprised that's even legal.