You have to work at an airport to find a flying Job. I worked line for years, had countless of oppurtunities to fly with old guys flying their planes on weekends, scared of having a heart attack mid flight and alone. Line service gives you tons of chances to network. I found my flying job by being the line manager for an FBO that serviced a Part 135 Jet Charter. That company hired me away from the FBO to manage their facility. 7 years of hard work was rewarded with a SIC type rating making me legal for the right seat. Fast forward 5 more years now with 2 PIC type ratings (JET). Bottom line is HARD work and luck. Everyones story is different, but I'm pretty sure those 2 factors will resurface time and again. By the way, I didn't go into that job with the intention of flying for them. I had no time worth anything, so I just did the job I had chosen and and was happy to be around aviation. They sent me to school for my SIC type with just over 275 hours fixed wing time!
It can happen, I promise. Get on an airport, get a job, any job, WORK hard, and be patient.
Good Luck