Couldn't do the military thing due to knee surgery, 80's medical technology or lack there off. Had to do the civilian gig but grew up, so to speak, while training at my local airport. Got lots of experience cleaning a/c, turning wrenches, driving a tug, pumping gas, flying some corporate stuff, doin' the CFI bit, traffic watch and forestry patrol. When I got to the regionals I got to fly the J-31, Saab and CRJ. Flew with some great guys and again got to learn more as a FMS instructor and working in the sim and line checkairman stuff.
Was I upset because a staple in my knee that kept me out? You bet I was, did I let it stop me? No, because I'm at the same point in my career had I been able to give Uncle Sam 20+ years.
The point I'm trying to make is no matter where you work take it seriously but try to have fun as well. Is one better than the other, each have their good points and bad points. If one thinks that civilian or military is better than the other, you're smoking crack.
BTW Jolly, I'll buy you a lifetime supply of Guinness in exchange for a chance to do a split S in a F-15. It's not as fun when I did it in the CRJ sim on in a CEEE 1-5-2 by accident.
God bless you guys who keep us safe!!!