Washington

I would stay away from court at all costs! It really isn't the right way to go, but sometimes there is no other option. When it comes down to it, the arrangement needs to be in the best interest of the child. While pilot schedules usually wont allow for 'stable' and predictable schedules (which most courts say is what is best for any child), keeping any parent from the child is also not the right solution.

Try for a flexible parenting plan that has your visitation fall on your days off, what ever that may be for the month. It doesn't have to be set specific days (like state every other weekend). There are ways to word it which essentially says you are allowed visitation any day you are off not to exceed 15 days a month (if you want 50/50) and the other parent needs to accommodate those days based on your schedule, especially if she is not working. Since she is living with her parents and in school, she should be able to be more flexible on the days for you. If you went to court, I seriously doubt any judge would deny all rights and visitation simply on the fact you can't get weekends off. That is no where near in the best interest of the child. Good luck!