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Originally Posted by Will
(Post 1136851)
What happens to Doctors or Nurses when they show up for work drunk do they automatically lose there jobs never to return. I don't think so. Give this person a break, nobody is perfect.
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Originally Posted by HotMamaPilot
(Post 1136844)
Do I have compassion for alcoholics? Some, yes. However, I will never recognize it as a disease. Disorder, maybe. Cancer is a disease. Willingly dumping a fifth of vodka down the hatch isn't a disease. Calling it a disease is just the sentiment of todays world: it's not MY fault that I drink.......it's a disease. Bull crapola. Each and everyone of us have free will. Leukemia, that's a disease.
My father was an alcoholic and a CA for 30 years with a Legacy. He did not drink very often at all...a few times per year. When he did, he was unable to stop. He got caught at the bar of his hotel (1980's) well past the cutoff time and was taken off the flight. Company sent him to rehab for 30 days, came back to the line and never had another drink in his life. He would not even take cough syrup with alcohol in it. Many on here apparently have no knowledge (lack of experience) on this subject. As for the TSA, if you let them invade your personal space, your fault. Every time this happens, they think they will be the one to catch the next drunk. I have backed them out of my face many, many times as they try and smell for alcohol. I even started taking original (yellow) Listerine just to screw with them sometimes. Always fun to call the supervisor over and ream all who were stupid enough to get involved. The Police....well you are never REQUIRED to perform a field sobriety test. In a DUI situation, there is nothing you must do. They will probably take you to jail for a blood test, but you can even refuse that. However, IF you refuse the BT in jail, you WILL lose your license for a year. But, no DUI on your record if you were actually drunk. Learn your rights, pay for cab, phone a friend, and never say "I could not do that sober". You just busted yourself. |
Originally Posted by Al Czervik
(Post 1136866)
You don't get it my friend. People far smarter than you and me have studied this. Their answer: disease. Your problem is that you see it as a moral delinquency. I assume you're not a total idiot and you would agree with me that type 1 diabetes is a disease. Just like an alcoholic the body reaches a chemical imbalance and exceeds a threshold. Now the disease is out of the hands of the individual. Well, type 1 diabetes cannot be cured...it can be managed. When a diabetic goes into shock we don't armchair QB them and say bull crapola it's not my fault I go into shock. The individuals that think like you simply don't get it. Calling BS on something you don't comprehend...not the smartest.
Excuses for people and start showing them the error in their ways, the better off we will ALL be. |
Originally Posted by Boomer
(Post 1137097)
I have always felt the need to drive fast. usually I can control it, but sometimes I can't. I just look down at the speedometer and I'm speeding. Something about the brain activity I experience driving fast makes me want it more. When I'm stuck in traffic, even when I have no place to be, my blood pressure goes up for no reason at all. The fact that I can not control my "need for speed" must make it a disease.
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Originally Posted by jayray2
(Post 1136910)
Getting fired from your regional FO job is losing a lot? The future is so bright for this industry . . . all those potential wages he is going to lose. He'll retire with more in his bank account in his new career than the majority of us regional pilots selling our souls for 30K a year with no end in sight.
Genius I know.... we should all do it. I have a real suggestion though. Quit your job. It sounds like you are bitter and hate it, so do everyone around you a favor and leave. Despite what you may think nobody likes to hear a whiner. |
Originally Posted by HotMamaPilot
(Post 1137171)
Comparing an alcoholic to a diabetic? And you say that I don't understand? So with what you're saying, alcoholism just "develops" in a person without any of their own knowledge or actions? Interesting. And don't get me started on not being a doctor; just because a "medical expert" deems it something (often under political pressure from the ama et al) does NOT make it gospel. Think about how asinine your comparison is. I think I'm gonna get off this trip to go home and get my nine year old screened for alcoholism. Although they've never seen alcohol, the "disease" may be lingering in them just as diabetes may. Give me a frickin break. The sooner we stop making
Excuses for people and start showing them the error in their ways, the better off we will ALL be. USMCFLYR |
Let's not forget, there's a difference between a drunk, and an alcoholic; alcoholics go to meetings. Just curious as to why no other crew members stopped this? For safety and security reasons, I would have called crew shed for this particular crew member, I doubt he was alone on the crew van?
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Originally Posted by HotMamaPilot
(Post 1137171)
Comparing an alcoholic to a diabetic? And you say that I don't understand? So with what you're saying, alcoholism just "develops" in a person without any of their own knowledge or actions? Interesting. And don't get me started on not being a doctor; just because a "medical expert" deems it something (often under political pressure from the ama et al) does NOT make it gospel. Think about how asinine your comparison is. I think I'm gonna get off this trip to go home and get my nine year old screened for alcoholism. Although they've never seen alcohol, the "disease" may be lingering in them just as diabetes may. Give me a frickin break. The sooner we stop making
Excuses for people and start showing them the error in their ways, the better off we will ALL be. |
Originally Posted by HotMamaPilot
(Post 1137171)
Comparing an alcoholic to a diabetic? And you say that I don't understand? So with what you're saying, alcoholism just "develops" in a person without any of their own knowledge or actions? Interesting. And don't get me started on not being a doctor; just because a "medical expert" deems it something (often under political pressure from the ama et al) does NOT make it gospel. Think about how asinine your comparison is. I think I'm gonna get off this trip to go home and get my nine year old screened for alcoholism. Although they've never seen alcohol, the "disease" may be lingering in them just as diabetes may. Give me a frickin break. The sooner we stop making
Excuses for people and start showing them the error in their ways, the better off we will ALL be. |
Originally Posted by PILOTGUY
(Post 1137158)
Well, when YOU become a Dr., you can work on renaming Alcoholism for the rest of the world.
My father was an alcoholic and a CA for 30 years with a Legacy. He did not drink very often at all...a few times per year. When he did, he was unable to stop. He got caught at the bar of his hotel (1980's) well past the cutoff time and was taken off the flight. Company sent him to rehab for 30 days, came back to the line and never had another drink in his life. He would not even take cough syrup with alcohol in it. Many on here apparently have no knowledge (lack of experience) on this subject. As for the TSA, if you let them invade your personal space, your fault. Every time this happens, they think they will be the one to catch the next drunk. I have backed them out of my face many, many times as they try and smell for alcohol. I even started taking original (yellow) Listerine just to screw with them sometimes. Always fun to call the supervisor over and ream all who were stupid enough to get involved. The Police....well you are never REQUIRED to perform a field sobriety test. In a DUI situation, there is nothing you must do. They will probably take you to jail for a blood test, but you can even refuse that. However, IF you refuse the BT in jail, you WILL lose your license for a year. But, no DUI on your record if you were actually drunk. Learn your rights, pay for cab, phone a friend, and never say "I could not do that sober". You just busted yourself. People make mistakes, we are human. I am of the belief that if you do mess up and show up to the plane drunk you should go to jail and loose you job. It doesn't matter if you are suffering from a disease or plain stupidity, You only get one chance IMO. My college roommate died last week in a car accident. He was driving down the wrong side of the highway in the early hours of the morning. I have felt both sorrow and anger, because he hit anther vehicle head on and killed four innocent people. |
Since when do doctors know everything? If they were so good why is do ambulance chasers make so much money??
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Originally Posted by Confused
(Post 1137177)
Well if he has so much to gain in your eyes I suggest you go to work drunk tomorrow so your future can be so much brighter.
Genius I know.... we should all do it. I have a real suggestion though. Quit your job. It sounds like you are bitter and hate it, so do everyone around you a favor and leave. Despite what you may think nobody likes to hear a whiner. |
Originally Posted by LeGreaseMan
(Post 1137304)
Or your dad should have had a job in some other industry other than transportation if his disease was so challenging. It sounds from the few sentences you wrote that he was able to control his disease and do his job where others have not.
People make mistakes, we are human. I am of the belief that if you do mess up and show up to the plane drunk you should go to jail and loose you job. It doesn't matter if you are suffering from a disease or plain stupidity, You only get one chance IMO. My college roommate died last week in a car accident. He was driving down the wrong side of the highway in the early hours of the morning. I have felt both sorrow and anger, because he hit anther vehicle head on and killed four innocent people. |
HookEm,
Excellent post. Best wishes to you and your husband. :) |
Originally Posted by thevagabond
(Post 1137378)
Well said. Adios whiner. Take your high school diploma and/or aviation degree and go find out what it will do for you in America today. You might just find yourself back here lickity-split with some perspective and a much improved attitude.
You can tell yourself whatever you have to in order to sleep at night. If you backed yourself into a corner by only having a high school degree or an aviation only degree with no other skills then I agree, good luck. Most pilots I know are smarter than that and have an out, what kind of pilot doesn't leave themselves with a plan B? In ten years I'm sure you'll still be telling yourself that if you can just stick it out for two more years there will be Majors knocking down your door for your services. |
Addiction
Addiction - a continued involvement with a substance or activity despite the negative consequences associated with it. Wiki
Example - Alcoholism, Aviation Career ect. :) Knowingly pursuing something that does you harm in the long run. We all are guilty of that or else we would have become plumbers or dentists. Skyhigh |
Originally Posted by SkyHigh
(Post 1137416)
Addiction - a continued involvement with a substance or activity despite the negative consequences associated with it. Wiki
Example - Alcoholism, Aviation Career ect. :) Knowingly pursuing something that does you harm in the long run. We all are guilty of that or else we would have become plumbers or dentists. Skyhigh |
Airline Pilot Life
The airline pilot life lends itself well to alcoholism. You are always on the road a midst unfamiliar surroundings and strangers most of the time. Biorhythms are perpetually askew. Awake when you should be asleep and trying to sleep when you are alert. Add to that the depression that comes along with the messed up body clock, bad diet, loneliness, loss of self worth and poverty. People tend to self medicate. A little booze can make instant best friends out of those you haven't met before and make a cold concrete hotel room feel like home.
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Good so far
Originally Posted by 80ktsClamp
(Post 1137420)
How's that dead horse working out for you, Skyhigh?
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Alcohol
Realistically pilots today probably should avoid all alcohol both on and off duty. Just too many ways to blow it. It takes a massive investment to get to an airline. One slip up on a day off can ruin decades of effort. Not worth it.
Don't forget FAR 91.17 While under the influence of alcohol. Not just drunk. Hung over counts too. 8 hours from bottle to throttle means a glass of wine at dinner not a bottle of whiskey then stop right at 8 hours prior to push. A swimmy head and pounding headache effects the safety of flight. Skyhigh |
I quit.
Infidelity is the cowards way to say "I don't want to be married to you anymore". Showing up drunk to work as a pilot is the subconscious saying "I have had enough of this profession".
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Originally Posted by SkyHigh
(Post 1137416)
Addiction - a continued involvement with a substance or activity despite the negative consequences associated with it. Wiki
Example - Alcoholism, Aviation Career ect. :) Knowingly pursuing something that does you harm in the long run. We all are guilty of that or else we would have become plumbers or dentists. Skyhigh
Originally Posted by SkyHigh
(Post 1137426)
The airline pilot life lends itself well to alcoholism. You are always on the road a midst unfamiliar surroundings and strangers most of the time. Biorhythms are perpetually askew. Awake when you should be asleep and trying to sleep when you are alert. Add to that the depression that comes along with the messed up body clock, bad diet, loneliness, loss of self worth and poverty. People tend to self medicate. A little booze can make instant best friends out of those you haven't met before and make a cold concrete hotel room feel like home.
Skyhigh That being said, it's possible to pull yourself out of a rut. It just takes the determination of an addict :D |
Originally Posted by Confused
(Post 1136304)
I bet the van driver who snitched feels like a hero right now. And don't worry I'm not saying he is a jerk for telling on the suspected drunk pilot or anything, nor am I saying to turn the other cheek.
With this driver being the one who called it in, I bet this week 50 other hotel van drivers wanna be the next hero of the day and call the cops on crews they might suspect so they themselves can feel heroic. Just like TSA screeners love to be the hero who nails the next drunk pilot. |
Originally Posted by Confused
(Post 1136304)
I bet the van driver who snitched feels like a hero right now. And don't worry I'm not saying he is a jerk for telling on the suspected drunk pilot or anything, nor am I saying to turn the other cheek.
With this driver being the one who called it in, I bet this week 50 other hotel van drivers wanna be the next hero of the day and call the cops on crews they might suspect so they themselves can feel heroic. Just like TSA screeners love to be the hero who nails the next drunk pilot. That kind of prejudice is the same kind that makes people think we make a ton of money doing nothing, drinking all the time, and just complaining for the sake of complaining. I say kudos to the van driver. Not only did he prevent a major comprise to safety, but he also saved the other pilot from having to explain how he let the flight takeoff without noticing his coworker was drunk. |
Originally Posted by Al Czervik
(Post 1137299)
Your viewpoint is uneducated and incorrect. (I'm pointing out the error in your ways) You are confusing your beliefs with the facts. I suggest you do a little research.
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Originally Posted by Truman_Sparks
(Post 1137560)
I got an idea......DON'T BE DRUNK, and it won't matter what a van driver thinks or the TSA is trying to do! Be a responsible, mature adult and you'll have mo worries.
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Originally Posted by HotMamaPilot
(Post 1137598)
Just because a quick wikipedia search tells us it's a disease, doesn't make it one. Gramma was a lush (big time). I never thought that it was anything other than her own fault. Let me ask you and usmcflyer: is being a pedophile a disease? When did it happen in this world where personal responsibility became extinct? Al, you sound as if you have personal experience with alcohol abuse (you or loved one); if so, I'm sorry. But, don't patronize them or yourself and do them a disservice by taking responsibility and putting it elsewhere. My personal beliefs? Life is perception, and I'm not buying into everything people tell me (as you do). And as far as my kids having "the gene", well if I raise them right to be responsible adults, they will never have to worry about getting the "disease".
And to answer your other question, I'll use part of your research method: From Wiki: As a medical diagnosis, pedophilia (or paedophilia) is defined as a psychiatric disorder in adults or late adolescents (persons age 16 or older) typically characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest in prepubescent children (generally age 13 years or younger, though onset of puberty may vary). The child must be at least five years younger than the adolescent (16 or older) to be termed pedophilia.[1][2][3][4] The term has a range of definitions, as found in psychiatry, psychology, the vernacular, and law enforcement. The International Classification of Diseases (ICD) defines pedophilia as a "disorder of adult personality and behaviour" in which there is a sexual preference for children of prepubertal or early pubertal age.[5] According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), pedophilia is a paraphilia in which a person has intense and recurrent sexual urges towards and fantasies about prepubescent children and on which feelings they have either acted or which cause distress or interpersonal difficulty.[1] USMCFLYR |
Originally Posted by HotMamaPilot
(Post 1137600)
You're missing the point: it's not his fault that he was drunk.........it's a disease.
You seem to miss this point and believe that the two are at odds with each other. So....besides the way that you chose to believe - what sort of proof are you willing to offer to those of us who disagree with your view? Any research out there from those whom you don't think are just trying to lead us down some rose trimmed path? USMCFLYR |
I think we're getting stuck on the term "disease".
Some would consider addictions, shyness, shell shock, tourettes, and poverty to be diseases. Others would consider a disease to be something like AIDS, Measles, Leprosy, or a burning case of the clap. If you look with a microscope you can see bacteria or a virus or something. If you get it on you, you can get infected. If you eradicate it from the body, you are cured. I fall into the second group of people. When someone says alcoholism, smoking, kleptomania, or obesity are diseases, I find myself thinking "how can it be a disease when it's a behavior?" Do germs make you crave french fries? If gambling is a disease, than could laziness be a disease? Is child abuse a disease? Is aging a disease? Is that guy covered with tattoos from head to toe because he has a disease? How can someone who hasn't had a drink in 30 years still be sick today? I blame the doctors for confusing things. If I break my leg, I have a medical condition. That doesn't make it a disease. If I cut myself intentionally or fear shoes, I have a mental condition. That doesn't make it a disease. I have no doubt that alcoholism is a disorder, a condition, whatever; but when they classify it as a "disease" they're rubbing my paradigm the wrong way. Of course I don't have any alcoholics or doctors in my family, so I guess I'm double ignorant. |
It really does not matter what we call it. Let MDs discuss the terminology on their forum. Flying while drunk is a problem. Get the pilot off the plane and off the line. Have that person go to court where a judge can give them a slap in the face and some extra motivation to get better. Go get treatment and convince the FAA you are safe to fly. Then send your resume out and interview. If someone sees all the work that person has done to get back in the industry and likes them so much they are willing to hire someone with an alcohol offense on their record, good for them.
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If someone really wanted to make a pilot's life bad, telling authorities he was drunk is a good way. Why not let this all play out before the crucifixions begin?
Originally Posted by HotMamaPilot
(Post 1137598)
Just because a quick wikipedia search tells us it's a disease, doesn't make it one. Gramma was a lush (big time). I never thought that it was anything other than her own fault. Let me ask you and usmcflyer: is being a pedophile a disease? When did it happen in this world where personal responsibility became extinct? Al, you sound as if you have personal experience with alcohol abuse (you or loved one); if so, I'm sorry. But, don't patronize them or yourself and do them a disservice by taking responsibility and putting it elsewhere. My personal beliefs? Life is perception, and I'm not buying into everything people tell me (as you do). And as far as my kids having "the gene", well if I raise them right to be responsible adults, they will never have to worry about getting the "disease".
As one friend of Bill W. described it, "The need for a drink is akin to being held underwater as your breath runs out. Eventually you suck in the water even though you know it will kill you. Recovery is as easy as learning not to inhale." |
Originally Posted by HotMamaPilot
(Post 1137600)
You're missing the point: it's not his fault that he was drunk.........it's a disease.
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Originally Posted by Al Czervik
(Post 1136172)
Yes. Hopefully he will get help. Sounds like he needs it. Bummer there's not a program for whats wrong with you.
Originally Posted by FmrFreightDog
(Post 1136424)
Best post of the thread IMO. Beats the hell out of piling on the guy. Substance abuse absolutely sucks. I've been through it with more than one of my family members. It's the reason I don't drink. There's no rationalizing it, and there's no excusing it, but dogpileing one of our own just to play "holier-than-thou" is a cheap shot. I doubt anyone would be ganging up on the guy if he'd hung himself in his hotel room out of depression. Sickness is sickness. Lay off, keyboard warriors.
Originally Posted by 2StgTurbine
(Post 1136476)
I don't care if he has a sickness. This industry cannot tolerate this kind of sickness. He can get better in some other line of work.
Originally Posted by Al Czervik
(Post 1136517)
Sheer ignorance here.
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Originally Posted by HookEm
(Post 1137380)
My husband got a DUI after his 33rd birthday after a night out with friends (away from duty). As a result his medical was pulled by the FAA (and before you ask it was his first DUI, that's how the FAA works now so I suggest calling a cab if you like your job)
Having said all that, yes, by all means, call a cab. There is certainly such thing as alcohol addiction. Call it a disease, or a behavior, or whatever you like. It's semantics and it's irrelevant. Those with an addiction to alcohol are at risk of losing EVERYTHING, hurting themselves, hurting others. And it's not because they are bad people. It's a complicated, multi-faceted problem which is not well understood. |
Originally Posted by Boomer
(Post 1137627)
I think we're getting stuck on the term "disease".
Some would consider addictions, shyness, shell shock, tourettes, and poverty to be diseases. Others would consider a disease to be something like AIDS, Measles, Leprosy, or a burning case of the clap. If you look with a microscope you can see bacteria or a virus or something. If you get it on you, you can get infected. If you eradicate it from the body, you are cured. I fall into the second group of people. When someone says alcoholism, smoking, kleptomania, or obesity are diseases, I find myself thinking "how can it be a disease when it's a behavior?" Do germs make you crave french fries? If gambling is a disease, than could laziness be a disease? Is child abuse a disease? Is aging a disease? Is that guy covered with tattoos from head to toe because he has a disease? How can someone who hasn't had a drink in 30 years still be sick today? I blame the doctors for confusing things. If I break my leg, I have a medical condition. That doesn't make it a disease. If I cut myself intentionally or fear shoes, I have a mental condition. That doesn't make it a disease. I have no doubt that alcoholism is a disorder, a condition, whatever; but when they classify it as a "disease" they're rubbing my paradigm the wrong way. Of course I don't have any alcoholics or doctors in my family, so I guess I'm double ignorant. USMCFLYR |
Originally Posted by HotMamaPilot
(Post 1137598)
And as far as my kids having "the gene", well if I raise them right to be responsible adults, they will never have to worry about getting the "disease".
My parents raised me the "right way". Didnt help much. I still became a pilot. I have a hard time calling it a disease as well, but I am not going to knock it. People much smarter than I have come up with that term for it. But like all diseases, alcoholism does not discriminate. It does not matter who it effects. You can raise your kids the right way, teach them the responsible way, but thats all you can do. You cant sit over their shoulder for the rest of their life saying "dont drink." They may get to college, have some really great times drinking and decide on their own they love it. They keep at it hard enough, long enough, guess what happens? Alcoholism. I read in a big book once that "addicts and alcoholics do not have a normal off switch in their brains. A normal person will put their hand on a hot stove and never touch it again. Addicts and alcoholics will continue to touch the hot stove." For pilots, that means continued drinking despite negative consequences. Get one dui under your belt, or one public intox or one alcohol related arrest and if you continue to drink, you are putting your hand on that hot stove. While they may not be a full blown, cant stop at one drink, alcoholic, they have a drinking problem that needs treatment. |
I'll grant you the disease for the part where you can't control yourself and keep drinking.
But not so much for the part where you wake up the next morning, shave, shower, but on a uniform and take the van to the airport. |
It is obvious that the individuals here that understand the disease is a disease are educated about it. Those that don't belive its a disease have little to no information/education on the subject. They are simply tossing out judgement. It's APC though. Carry on.....
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There is a difference between alcoholism and irresponsibility.
I know of a pilot of a well known regional airline who was a self acknowledged alcoholic, had sought treatment and who had successfully maintained complete abstinence for years. Then one day the van driver reported alcohol on his breath after driving him to the airport for a late afternoon show. He was tested and blew way over. I do not know the circumstances behind this latest incident in OMA. None of us knows whether the problem was /is clinical alcoholism or just a case of partying too hard for too long the night before. If the former case it is good that he will now get the help he needs; if the latter he will get a harsh lesson. But none of us knows which is the case and none of us is in a position to make judgements with regard to why this pilot ended up in the situation in which he now finds himself. |
Originally Posted by HotMamaPilot
(Post 1137598)
Let me ask you and usmcflyer: is being a pedophile a disease? ........ And as far as my kids having "the gene", well if I raise them right to be responsible adults, they will never have to worry about getting the "disease".
Originally Posted by USMCFLYR
(Post 1137750)
Agree with many of the things that you are saying here Boomer - but if you could see that the brain chemistry (something you can see and track) is different in an addict and if you can see the brain and the body act differently when stimulated with a substance would it make a difference to you? The difference here that many may be getting hung up on is that this disease can be controlled at stated earlier and that control CAN BE in the hands of the person once they get help and started down that road to recovery (thus a person's behavior can play a bigger part).
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