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Originally Posted by AerisArmis
When does the "NOT have a choice" begin? If I chose not to use meth, am I still an addict? If I use it once? Twice? If she had chosen never to use drugs...of any kind...would she still be alive? I feel sorry for her and her family but, you "DO have a choice" whether to use drugs.....and only then can you become an addict and "NOT have a choice". Any kind of addiction is a dead end street and it's just a sad state of affairs.
Aeris, your logic is sound. Unfortunately, what medical science is increasingly finding is that certain people (and yes, it's hereditary) are predisposed to have a tendency towards addiction (because of the previously mentioned DNA markers, imbalanced brain chemistry, blahblahblah).
Can they "choose" or even "control" their tendencies? Maybe, but it's an uphill fight all the way. This poor UPS pilot may have fought it as hard as she could but ultimately lost the battle, who knows. As others have said, we can't judge what her situation was.
But this is also why people who beat one addiction like gambling, often just turn to another addiction like alcohol. It's a tough road for anyone to deal with, and in many cases like this one, sadly, it ends tragically.