Wife should be welcoming you home, willing to get the virus together, nurse you back.

What if she catches the flu at the grocery store? Or worse, Covid??

I don’t like the double standard tilted to their benefit. They want equality
​​​​​​, they get equality.

My wife was a little nicer than the OP’s. She just sprays me down and Lysol and forces me into the shower and burns my clothes/uniform. I agree with the comment that she’s just worried and overly cautious with the children. We have four. I think that’s a little much though to say don’t come home; just as much as it is to say “she has a side piece.“

My wife did do as much as possible to help by making N95 masks out of the HVAC filters we have supplied downstairs. Apparently that is the same material that the N95 mask’s are made of. And if it is worn correctly, it does do good against both exposure to and exposure from the virus. I don’t necessarily believe those that say it doesn’t do any good to wear them if you are not infected. Just my opinion though. By them saying that, it saves more N95 masks for those who truly need them in the hospitals and medical field.

Bingo.....here’s your equal rights.

Offer to let your tainted pay check self quarantine with you. See if that changes her mind.