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I'm at about your point but have been married with kids for a while.Originally Posted by 3 green
Good thread with some good points. I'm in my early 50s but have never pulled the trigger and married. Now I have acquired what most would say is high wealth, so is it worth getting married and losing half of that? Most married pilots I fly with say how great marriage is until they get a divorce, and then they have a totally different view. I think the only option for older guys with high wealth is a pre-nup, and even that may not really protect you.
If my marriage fell through I would not get married again, unless it was to someone who 1) I was really into who 2) really wanted to be an honest woman and 3) was financially in about the same place as me and 4) was willing to do mutual pre-nups (and move somewhere that it's enforceable).
Other than that, I'd just shack up in some state where common-law wouldn't entitle her to the fruits of my life's work.
Being married and sharing kids when young is pretty magical. But without that backstory, I don't see the bond or attraction that's worth risking the poorhouse.