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Originally Posted by 123456
Try to be civil and offer her $3,000 a month and she will save thousands on lawyers fees.. Do the math.. If not, then drag it out as long as you possibly can to make it miserable for her. Most people count on one or the other persons caving in to get it over with sooner. Don't do that.!
I'm going to disagree with this advice. You will just be punishing yourself (and your children) as well as your former spouse using this strategy. You may do irreparable damage to your relationship with your kids.
Life is too short. Move on with your life. Pilots especially can make back a lot of the $$$. I'm not saying to give her whatever she wants, but the goal should be a fair and equitable settlement as quickly as possible.
Get some good legal advice to help you determine what is fair and equitable under the circumstances and the law. What you think is fair and what a judge (and the law) thinks is fair are often not the same.