Divorce/Alimony/Pension Payment QDRO
10-15-2018, 07:09 AM
#21
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Originally Posted by FlyingDawgg
I'm a young guy and don't know much about marriages and stuff. Would a prenup prevent this?
10-15-2018, 08:28 AM
#22
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What a rip. Say what you want but she didnt earn it. He earned it. She made the choice to not work. Not saying she deserves nothing but the concept she was slugging away at an actual job for 30 yrs is a joke. There is a reason nursing homes are full of old women and not old men, the men die sooner because they are getting out of bed at o dark thirty and putting up with the stresses of a job. Stay at home wifes? Not so much.
10-15-2018, 11:41 AM
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cooking. cleaning. taking care of kids. putting up with this dude. She Earned It. did she choose not to work, or did they as a happy couple agree that she shouldn’t? She gets half, the lawyers get 1/3, and this lucky bast@rd gets to retire at 65 because he loves the job and the people.
some dude complained of the content on this forum. where is that dude now, because really who airs this sort of dirty laundry on a public forum? get a friend, and then ask that friend. and then write her a big fat check. #sevendigits
some dude complained of the content on this forum. where is that dude now, because really who airs this sort of dirty laundry on a public forum? get a friend, and then ask that friend. and then write her a big fat check. #sevendigits
10-15-2018, 01:05 PM
#25
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Originally Posted by FlyingDawgg
I'm a young guy and don't know much about marriages and stuff. Would a prenup prevent this?
10-15-2018, 02:58 PM
#26
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Originally Posted by kc10/c130
A Sailboat and a Banana Republic location is about all that will prevent this.
10-16-2018, 03:30 AM
#27
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Originally Posted by Anthrax
cooking. cleaning. taking care of kids. putting up with this dude. She Earned It. did she choose not to work, or did they as a happy couple agree that she shouldn’t? She gets half, the lawyers get 1/3, and this lucky bast@rd gets to retire at 65 because he loves the job and the people.
some dude complained of the content on this forum. where is that dude now, because really who airs this sort of dirty laundry on a public forum? get a friend, and then ask that friend. and then write her a big fat check. #sevendigits
some dude complained of the content on this forum. where is that dude now, because really who airs this sort of dirty laundry on a public forum? get a friend, and then ask that friend. and then write her a big fat check. #sevendigits
#youreacompletejackass
Did I get the hashtag thing right, douchebag?
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10-16-2018, 12:11 PM
#29
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Originally Posted by sailingfun
No, they likely had few assets when married that long ago. A prenup protects assets you have going into the marriage. Assets earned and acquired after a marriage will be divided according to the respective states laws. Had I asked for a prenup before getting married the conversation with the attorney would have been interesting. “Let me get this straight, you want me to draft a prenup to protect your 1968 Capri valued at 300.00 and your collection of Eagles T-shirt’s”?
A prenup (or post nup) can address division of assets acquired during the course of a marriage.
10-16-2018, 01:42 PM
#30
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Originally Posted by navigatro
this is why you should not take legal advice from a pilot on an anonymous web board.
A prenup (or post nup) can address division of assets acquired during the course of a marriage.
A prenup (or post nup) can address division of assets acquired during the course of a marriage.
A postnuptial agreement is a written agreement executed after a couple gets married, or have entered a civil union, to settle the couple's affairs and assets in the event of a separation or divorce. It may be "notarized" or acknowledged and may be the subject of the statute of frauds.
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