Looking Back
#41
Talk People out
Married? Over 20 years and going strong, one marriage, several kids.
My teens call me 'Dad'.
Not a trust fund baby.
One kid of a large family with no money other than my folks made me think we were doing fine. Average middle class, roof over head, beans and rice, etc. paid my way through college working and took out loans that I repaid at in just over 30 months because I disliked the debt.
Paid for my PPL as a teenager by working at a grocery store, stuffing papers, and working at Burger King.
Tough? Yep, just like the businessman neighbor for a coloring food additive company that is on the road more days than me every month. Gratifying? Yes, earning a living at what I want to do.
Share the experience with my kids by being with them and enjoying travels with them, kicking back and sharing life. They get a Mom and dad that gets to spend time at school recitals, etc. I am one of the few dads that makes these events. Do I miss some? Yes, just like the ones the other dad's missed that I attended.
Do what one must. I wasn't cut out to be a railroad guy like my brother, but he seems to make it work. I do too. If flying hadn;'t worked out for me, and I certainly realize timing is involved, would have pressed on to something else as so many of my friends have done and enjoyed life and encouraged folks in whatever dreams they desire. It is America afterall, opportunity is the only guarantee. Like I said Skyhigh, your conversation is muted by your bitterness and regret. Change it and bet you could talk more folks outta flying commercial airplanes <g>
My teens call me 'Dad'.
Not a trust fund baby.
One kid of a large family with no money other than my folks made me think we were doing fine. Average middle class, roof over head, beans and rice, etc. paid my way through college working and took out loans that I repaid at in just over 30 months because I disliked the debt.
Paid for my PPL as a teenager by working at a grocery store, stuffing papers, and working at Burger King.
Tough? Yep, just like the businessman neighbor for a coloring food additive company that is on the road more days than me every month. Gratifying? Yes, earning a living at what I want to do.
Share the experience with my kids by being with them and enjoying travels with them, kicking back and sharing life. They get a Mom and dad that gets to spend time at school recitals, etc. I am one of the few dads that makes these events. Do I miss some? Yes, just like the ones the other dad's missed that I attended.
Do what one must. I wasn't cut out to be a railroad guy like my brother, but he seems to make it work. I do too. If flying hadn;'t worked out for me, and I certainly realize timing is involved, would have pressed on to something else as so many of my friends have done and enjoyed life and encouraged folks in whatever dreams they desire. It is America afterall, opportunity is the only guarantee. Like I said Skyhigh, your conversation is muted by your bitterness and regret. Change it and bet you could talk more folks outta flying commercial airplanes <g>
I do not think that we should encourage other to pursue whatever silliness that enters their heads. Careful analysis is important for making such big life choices. Emotion can lead us easily astray. No one becomes a chiropractor, dentist or plumber because they dreamed of it as a kid. They did it to earn a good living. It is a measured sacrifice for a specific outcome.
It is one thing to learn how to play the guitar and take a shot at American Idol and another to blow close to a quarter of a million dollars and a few decades on a thin chance at an aviation career. There are no guarantees of anything in flying. You could lose your medical tomorrow and it would be all for naught.
It is easy on a forum like this to assume that my life is about typing on the computer. In fact I have moved on and have developed a nice life for myself outside of aviation. I visit this forum because it is a hobby of mine.
Skyhigh
#42
The 18,000
Back in the late 1990's and early 2000's I would frequent aviation employment conferences. Aside from the endless standing in line to hand a recruiter another sheet of paper on occasion I would attend a forum or two.
One had a HR representative from UAL who gave a speech on hiring practices and advice. She told us that at any one time there were between 16 to 20 thousand current and qualified pilots in the nation who were actively applying to the legacy air carriers. They all had equivalent levels of education and experience. Most applied to every legacy simultaneously.
I knew from my studies that the legacy airlines hired an average of 2000 pilots each year. At the time that placed the average qualified pilot at just shy of ten to one odds. So after surviving college, flight training, years of low wage experience building and the regionals to upgrade and 1000 hours of part 121 PIC a pilot reached a point where they only had ten to one odds.
That was ten years ago. Today the regionals have an even larger market share. There are also a legion of netjet type of pilots and a flood of military pilots that are due to separate from the military. On top of that the age 65 thing in addition to the shrinking legacy market and the odds are considerably worse.
To put that into perspective if your dream is to fly for UPS and all other conditions are equal you are competing against 18,000 pilots, or more, for the possibility of 100 job openings on an annual basis. 180 to 1.
Skyhigh
One had a HR representative from UAL who gave a speech on hiring practices and advice. She told us that at any one time there were between 16 to 20 thousand current and qualified pilots in the nation who were actively applying to the legacy air carriers. They all had equivalent levels of education and experience. Most applied to every legacy simultaneously.
I knew from my studies that the legacy airlines hired an average of 2000 pilots each year. At the time that placed the average qualified pilot at just shy of ten to one odds. So after surviving college, flight training, years of low wage experience building and the regionals to upgrade and 1000 hours of part 121 PIC a pilot reached a point where they only had ten to one odds.
That was ten years ago. Today the regionals have an even larger market share. There are also a legion of netjet type of pilots and a flood of military pilots that are due to separate from the military. On top of that the age 65 thing in addition to the shrinking legacy market and the odds are considerably worse.
To put that into perspective if your dream is to fly for UPS and all other conditions are equal you are competing against 18,000 pilots, or more, for the possibility of 100 job openings on an annual basis. 180 to 1.
Skyhigh
#43
Gets Weekends Off
Joined APC: Mar 2008
Posts: 2,919
I can't say that my aim is to talk people out of flying. I believe that most who embark on training do not get a balanced view of the situation they face. All they get is Flying Magazine and Kit Darby.
I do not think that we should encourage other to pursue whatever silliness that enters their heads. Careful analysis is important for making such big life choices. Emotion can lead us easily astray. No one becomes a chiropractor, dentist or plumber because they dreamed of it as a kid. They did it to earn a good living. It is a measured sacrifice for a specific outcome.
It is one thing to learn how to play the guitar and take a shot at American Idol and another to blow close to a quarter of a million dollars and a few decades on a thin chance at an aviation career. There are no guarantees of anything in flying. You could lose your medical tomorrow and it would be all for naught.
It is easy on a forum like this to assume that my life is about typing on the computer. In fact I have moved on and have developed a nice life for myself outside of aviation. I visit this forum because it is a hobby of mine.
Skyhigh
I do not think that we should encourage other to pursue whatever silliness that enters their heads. Careful analysis is important for making such big life choices. Emotion can lead us easily astray. No one becomes a chiropractor, dentist or plumber because they dreamed of it as a kid. They did it to earn a good living. It is a measured sacrifice for a specific outcome.
It is one thing to learn how to play the guitar and take a shot at American Idol and another to blow close to a quarter of a million dollars and a few decades on a thin chance at an aviation career. There are no guarantees of anything in flying. You could lose your medical tomorrow and it would be all for naught.
It is easy on a forum like this to assume that my life is about typing on the computer. In fact I have moved on and have developed a nice life for myself outside of aviation. I visit this forum because it is a hobby of mine.
Skyhigh
What are you Helen Keller???
#44
The aviation experience as been a character builder, extremely satisfying and very instructive. I would pass on all that to others considering a military/commercial aviation career.
Good luck in your hobby.
#45
Fundamental Diffrence
That is where we are so very fundamentally different. I would pickup and move on (and I have many non aviation options that I would find employement and enjoyment).
The aviation experience as been a character builder, extremely satisfying and very instructive. I would pass on all that to others considering a military/commercial aviation career.
Good luck in your hobby.
The aviation experience as been a character builder, extremely satisfying and very instructive. I would pass on all that to others considering a military/commercial aviation career.
Good luck in your hobby.
When things work out the struggle to get there is referred to a "character building exercise". When your bills are paid the job becomes "satisfying". I did not experience those things. Most in aviation don't. I hope you can understand how disappointing that can be.
Especially after investing so much.
Skyhigh
#46
250k
250K is probably too low an estimate for the true cost of an aviation career today.
Skyhigh
Last edited by SkyHigh; 05-31-2010 at 07:27 AM.
#47
Wow, you really are a lot worse off than I thought. Not to play internet psychologist here, but really you should consider some professional help. You've made no secret here about your family issues and how overly dependent your extended family is on your handouts. I don't know if that's what is affecting you now or what, but clearly you are not well and are still very unsatisfied with your life.
One of the great things about living in the US is that we are afforded many opportunities to reinvent ourselves and explore various vocations throughout our lifetimes. Almost everybody in my family has done it, and with great success. I've known many others throughout my life that have done the same.
After working as an engineer for several years, I knew it was not something that was going to make me happy. I focused my efforts on an aviation career, and have been a professional pilot for over three years now. I'm very happy with the decision I made, and I would definitely do it again (and like before, I'd do it without getting into debt).
If something were to happen that required another career change, I'm confident that I'd be able to make that happen (again). Would I regret my time in aviation? Absolutely not. As a fledgling professional pilot, I've learned a lot about myself, my strengths, weaknesses, fears, and what I'm capable of doing. It's changed me as a person, and it has changed my life forever with the experiences I've had, the people I've met and befriended, and the places I've seen.
The fact that you still hold so much contempt over your brief stint as a professional pilot is really sad. You are letting your distant past control your present self, with nothing but sad excuses and self pity to explain your present unhappiness. It's not normal. Ok? Do you understand that? You need to get some help... I wish you the best, and I hope you are able to heal and improve your future.
One of the great things about living in the US is that we are afforded many opportunities to reinvent ourselves and explore various vocations throughout our lifetimes. Almost everybody in my family has done it, and with great success. I've known many others throughout my life that have done the same.
After working as an engineer for several years, I knew it was not something that was going to make me happy. I focused my efforts on an aviation career, and have been a professional pilot for over three years now. I'm very happy with the decision I made, and I would definitely do it again (and like before, I'd do it without getting into debt).
If something were to happen that required another career change, I'm confident that I'd be able to make that happen (again). Would I regret my time in aviation? Absolutely not. As a fledgling professional pilot, I've learned a lot about myself, my strengths, weaknesses, fears, and what I'm capable of doing. It's changed me as a person, and it has changed my life forever with the experiences I've had, the people I've met and befriended, and the places I've seen.
The fact that you still hold so much contempt over your brief stint as a professional pilot is really sad. You are letting your distant past control your present self, with nothing but sad excuses and self pity to explain your present unhappiness. It's not normal. Ok? Do you understand that? You need to get some help... I wish you the best, and I hope you are able to heal and improve your future.
From an engineering degree holder to another, let's not be disingenuous and pretend you and I are the epitome of the pilot demographic. We're not. The majority of folks want and do go zero to hero, sitting on factually flawed brochures of broken dreams and optimism-bias to rationalize their hardships with. Not prior career trust funds/financial independence/military pensions/guard-reserve jobs with which to subsidize this "cutsy" "life journey" of flying professionally until it gets retarded and then calling it an "enriching experience while it lasted" and par for the course. Like good engineers, let's get our boundary and initial conditions right before we go debate the results of that equation of motion A "career" you have to come in with all the returns on-hand BEFORE you're able to put forth the investment is merely and factually a HOBBY. I don't care how neat-o it is to do.
To put it in perspective, your example is even less applicable than SkyHigh's to the aspirant because you subsidized your entry into aviation with another career! If that is the de facto price of entry in order to not fall flat on your behind to pursue aviation, then people need to own up to it and advertise it as such. But that would crack open the "hobby" jab and people are not about to be labeled "amateurs" for all the responsibility they carry out and for such little money for a hardship, so they mask their sugar money and sources of financial solvency in order to distance their pro-aviation employment arguments from that accusation. SkyHigh merely points out that absent these artificialities, your so loved profession is a fickle stinkin' façade of a "yob" that requires people to be as willing to do away with it as they were to get into it, when the going gets tough and food needs to be put on the table and daddy has to stop playing pilot for sunsets and ILS's. But that construct, the "I became a heart surgeon so I could save money so I could become a lesser paid corporate pilot" approach, won't fill the seats at ERAU/Purdue/puppy mills/mom n pop FBOs. It will just merely uncover the insolvency of the profession and people will figure out that as cute as it is to fly, it's not quite cute to gamble your life away for, when you could have just gone thru the trouble of becoming a heart surgeon in the first place and flying on the weekends....
I find Skyhigh's inject on that account a extremely sobering and valuable among a sea of people who discredit his POV on the basis of "attitude" when they had subsidies of their own.
#48
Gets Weekends Off
Joined APC: Sep 2008
Position: B767
Posts: 1,901
Yours was a calculated career change. A fully funded and insured-with-your-engineering-salary "life is a journey, not a destination" type approach to the private recognition that aviation is a fickle b$tch and you knew it going in, otherwise you would have not pursued engineering BEFORE you pursued aviation.
But it would have been a completely different tune you'd be singing if you had done it the opposite way. I.e. going zero to hero about this pilot "yob", then deciding it wasn't panning out and now looking at 4 (really 5) years of engineering school while 10 years removed from your early 20s. You wouldn't be so copacetic about aviation being fickle then. And that's the difference between your approach to aviation and Skyhigh's.
From an engineering degree holder to another, let's not be disingenuous and pretend you and I are the epitome of the pilot demographic. We're not. The majority of folks want and do go zero to hero, sitting on factually flawed brochures of broken dreams and optimism-bias to rationalize their hardships with. Not prior career trust funds/financial independence/military pensions/guard-reserve jobs with which to subsidize this "cutsy" "life journey" of flying professionally until it gets retarded and then calling it an "enriching experience while it lasted" and par for the course.
Like good engineers, let's get our boundary and initial conditions right before we go debate the results of that equation of motion A "career" you have to come in with all the returns on-hand BEFORE you're able to put forth the investment is merely and factually a HOBBY. I don't care how neat-o it is to do.
To put it in perspective, your example is even less applicable than SkyHigh's to the aspirant because you subsidized your entry into aviation with another career!
If that is the de facto price of entry in order to not fall flat on your behind to pursue aviation, then people need to own up to it and advertise it as such.
But that would crack open the "hobby" jab and people are not about to be labeled "amateurs" for all the responsibility they carry out and for such little money for a hardship, so they mask their sugar money and sources of financial solvency in order to distance their pro-aviation employment arguments from that accusation.
SkyHigh merely points out that absent these artificialities, your so loved profession is a fickle stinkin' façade of a "yob" that requires people to be as willing to do away with it as they were to get into it, when the going gets tough and food needs to be put on the table and daddy has to stop playing pilot for sunsets and ILS's.
But that construct, the "I became a heart surgeon so I could save money so I could become a lesser paid corporate pilot" approach, won't fill the seats at ERAU/Purdue/puppy mills/mom n pop FBOs. It will just merely uncover the insolvency of the profession and people will figure out that as cute as it is to fly, it's not quite cute to gamble your life away for, when you could have just gone thru the trouble of becoming a heart surgeon in the first place and flying on the weekends....
I find Skyhigh's inject on that account a extremely sobering and valuable among a sea of people who discredit his POV on the basis of "attitude" when they had subsidies of their own.
#49
Skyhigh = Broken Record
we get it, aviation sucked for you so it should suck for everyone else. move on already
we get it, aviation sucked for you so it should suck for everyone else. move on already
#50
Ok enough now. If you are looking for sympathy, you are probably not going to get it from your brother pilots. No quarter given and none taken. Many are in the same boat as you. If you are unhappy, man up, and move on. Make some moves and improve yourself and your situation. I am done with this thread. You have had your shoulder to cry on.... now wipe your tears and make something happen - or whine yourself into the unhappy existence that awaits you if you do nothing.
"The best of the free life is still yet to come, and the good times ain't over for good",
Aloha
"The best of the free life is still yet to come, and the good times ain't over for good",
Aloha
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