With genuine respect to the family/friends of our fallen brothers, I do think it's a bit unrealistic to expect others in the same vocation not to speculate or search for and (hopefully in the process) educate themselves as to the cause and potential (future) mitigating factors to such an event. I'm sure most of us feel, on some level, "there but for the ..." As previously stated, it could have been any one of us.
I can certainly understand a moritorium on any type of "blaming the victim"/pilot error (and I am IN NO WAY suggesting anything of the sort) rhetoric or speculation. But to delete links to legal opinons, articles describing the presence or absence of flight deck safety equip, etc. is a bit over the top. Certainly those personally close to the UPS 6 crew have some responsibility to avoid surfing sites that contain information likely to exacerbate their understandible pain given the situation at hand.
I think there must be some way to comply with the family/EB request while still allowing honest information that may be relevant to our chosen vocation and the dangers we all face on the job. The "nothing to see here, quit looking, quit trying to understand" framework is unhelpful.
With regard to thread drift, perhaps that would be less of a problem if the thread was renamed "UPS 6 747...Dubai Memorial"