SkyHigh....for the love of God enough already!
#41
Sorry for the loss of your friend. It too is an example of another wasted life. Sadly over the years You will watch as other friends spiral out of formation. I have witnessed many of my friends implode in the pursuit of aviation. Some destroy their marriages. Others damage their health. Most are financially destitute.
I have one old and close friend from high school who shot himself after being caught intoxicated on the job. He worked for an airtaxi in Alaska. The stress of daily operations can push one into alcoholism. He lost control. His loss in my life will bare a mark on my heart for the rest of my days.
Aviation is a disease, an addiction. The lustful drive is blinding. Often it takes the passage of time before you realise what has been lost.
SKyHigh
I have one old and close friend from high school who shot himself after being caught intoxicated on the job. He worked for an airtaxi in Alaska. The stress of daily operations can push one into alcoholism. He lost control. His loss in my life will bare a mark on my heart for the rest of my days.
Aviation is a disease, an addiction. The lustful drive is blinding. Often it takes the passage of time before you realise what has been lost.
SKyHigh
How about a book? Shattered Aviation Dreams. BTW I think this type of problem happens in a lot of proffessions, maybe just more so in ours.
#42
It is prevalent throughout society. Aviation does however seem to take a larger toll. Often when reality doesnt match with our self concept the results can be devastating. People can become heavily invested in aviation and have little else to turn to when things don't go well. I will never forget the day I went to an interview to be a stock person at Costco. They asked why a 36 year old college educated 757 pilot was in their store asking for an entry level job. That was a very bitter pill.
SKyHigh
#43
Bitter pill indeed. Wouldn't a 70K Regional job as a captain be better than the Costco deal, Or an Instructor slot at Flight Safety? Finally your posts got me thinking why we as pilots get so bitter? I have my ideas as to why (4day trips, weekends, holidays, commuting etc.) but will save it for another day. I have often considered leaving it all together myself, but if I did I would go the self employed route. And I know that would mean being married to the business just like aviation.
#44
Well, the last time I posted in Regional, I was given a lesson in the Socratic method!
However, I have been itching to say this: much has been made and continued to be made about SkyHigh and his pessimism, but his perspective is precisely what newbies into aviation need to know in order to make a fully informed decision. What he has to say is not pretty all the time, but that's life. I am a glass half full person, and I choose to see the value in his posts. I do not always agree with him, but I appreciate his perception and candor. Those who have been attacking him resort to juvenile name calling and hiding behind anonymous call signs. If you have something useful to say, some good counterpoint, bring them on! Last I heard, pilots are never short of opinions.
However, I have been itching to say this: much has been made and continued to be made about SkyHigh and his pessimism, but his perspective is precisely what newbies into aviation need to know in order to make a fully informed decision. What he has to say is not pretty all the time, but that's life. I am a glass half full person, and I choose to see the value in his posts. I do not always agree with him, but I appreciate his perception and candor. Those who have been attacking him resort to juvenile name calling and hiding behind anonymous call signs. If you have something useful to say, some good counterpoint, bring them on! Last I heard, pilots are never short of opinions.
#45
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There'd be rioting in the streets! Human sacrifice, dogs and cats living together--mass hysteria!Well, I'd read it.
#47
If I were able to focus for longer than it takes to write a post it would be fun to write a book of some kind. My inspiration comes from what I read from others. Perhaps we all could get together and write a book? We could call it the APC Handbook for Success in Aviation.
Skyhigh
Skyhigh
#48
Bitter pill indeed. Wouldn't a 70K Regional job as a captain be better than the Costco deal, Or an Instructor slot at Flight Safety? Finally your posts got me thinking why we as pilots get so bitter? I have my ideas as to why (4day trips, weekends, holidays, commuting etc.) but will save it for another day. I have often considered leaving it all together myself, but if I did I would go the self employed route. And I know that would mean being married to the business just like aviation.
I didn't get the job. I applied for several similar positions and got the same screwy look from the interviewer. I am sure they were all thinking "what is wrong with this guy"? I did however get a job offer from a trucking company to be a dispatcher. Turns out the interviewer was an EX- F/A for Horizon Air and knew full well what the life was like.
SKyHigh
#49
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Bitter pill indeed. Wouldn't a 70K Regional job as a captain be better than the Costco deal, Or an Instructor slot at Flight Safety? Finally your posts got me thinking why we as pilots get so bitter? I have my ideas as to why (4day trips, weekends, holidays, commuting etc.) but will save it for another day. I have often considered leaving it all together myself, but if I did I would go the self employed route. And I know that would mean being married to the business just like aviation.
#50
$70K? If SkyHigh would have stayed at Horizon (despite the waterboarding and electro-genital treatments we undergo) he could be making over $100K easy. But he will blame QX for his decision to bail to an unstable startup. We can make, and all have made, bad decisions; The test of one's character comes when deciding whom to blame.
I am not blaming QX for anything. They did lie to me and treated all of us like 5 year olds. I endured the longest and most miserable 9 leg days of my life there. The worst decision I could make would be to have stayed. If the kind of life and working conditions QX offers is satisfactory for you then have at it.
QX fell far short of what I considered to be worth throwing a career away upon. In fact 100K is not even close to being enough to endure what they dish out at QX.
Enjoy,
SKyHigh
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