Hilarious /Ns (NOT sarcastic)

 

Remind me again about the validity of the Hogan?


And, also if you assume having a wife means assuming you will lose 50% maybe you need to widen the applicant pool. My wife ended up paying off my flight training, and if we split (which 20 years in, I hope will never happen) she would still end up paying me (hint: she doesn't cackle, she has a career). You sound like you are absolutely miserable, and had an absolutely atrocious first marriage, and maybe you should look at yourself before projecting your experience on everyone else.

 

I had no idea that my original post would bother so many happily married men!!! Why are you trying convince me how grateful you are for your wife? If you have to try and convince anyone how great your marriage is then it most likely isn’t. Especially to ghost on the net.

 

I sound like I’m miserable because I’m not married, do what I want when I want, don’t answer to anyone and don’t ever want to combine my finances, retirement and property with a woman? Lol. You’re dense. There isn’t anything you can do with a wife that you cant do with a GF and that way you don’t put all your assets at risk. Marriage isn’t necessary for a relationship or happiness. Sorry you had to mooch off your wife to have a successful career. What did you bring to the table?? Debt?? You sound like a real good catch. According to your logic looks like your wife should have widened her applicant pool. But good post pal. You showed me.

 

You want to talk weirdos. Ever talked on the phone with a friend that has kids...it's like talking to someone with tourette's!

I reject the notion that because someone chooses not to get married, that they only care about money or are self-centered. One can have a long-lasting, meaningful, monogamous relationship without getting married. Oddly it's often more financially advantageous for a couple to get married. I'm not against the institution of marriage, and am truly happy for those that find true happiness in marriage. That said, I don't see the need for it and I surely wouldn't get married today without a very solid pre-nup. It's not a matter of being self-centered/greedy, it's about protecting oneself from the unknowns. I've witnessed enough people who were completely blind-sided by their spouses leaving them in their later years (divorce rate among the 50+ crowd has been steadily increasing), leaving them in financial hardship. On top of the associated heartache, financial ruin is not something I'd want to be dealing with, in my 40s/50s/60s.

Edit: Oh ya, don't me messing around if you don't want your crap in proverbial street (FB, et al...).

 

Well said sir!!!

 

Ihateyou's entire premise on this subject has been based on protecting his money and being able to do what he wants without permission. So while you may reject those notions, it's almost his exclusive reasons for avoiding it again.

 

Throwing around absolutes is short sighted. I have met married and unmarried weirdo's with whole football teams of kids or no kids. Running the gamut from extreme religious views to guys that just like to play the field with serious commitment issues. Being married is a choice to being in a committed relationship and can be rewarding. Some marriages implode or people change but that is just life. If you can't be honest with your own commitments then you aren't being honest with yourself either. Apparently a lot of you have life figured out and that is great but life isn't always so nice. Everyone has their journey.

The age of privacy is completely dead. If you are going to act a fool you are going to be known as a fool forever. Your actions are being recorded , logged, taped, and put on display.

 

I'm willing to bet a good portion of guys who are/were miserably married wed a chick who was hot with fake boobs AND was warned by others she was trouble. Zero sympathy for clowns like that.

 

Yeah, I am going to not reply to any of this.