So true! I think it's partly because with a wife or a long-term partner, there's some in your house to call you out on your own $**t and keep your own a-holeness in check.

 

I would say her name, but I don’t want it coming back to me.

Ooohhhh.....you mean the pilot.

 

Or homosexual.

 

I've only flown with a few gay pilots, but all of them seemed very cool, nice, and either married or in long term relationships.

 

A large portion are scabs and or gay.

 

Maybe I misunderstood. I thought she was just doing it out of spite. I stand corrected. Next time I’ll reread the original post. My bad.

 

Awe, love you guys that are trapped and lash out at those of us that aren’t! Sucks that the only way out for you is giving up half or more of your stuff.

 

I’ve been married. So not one of your weirdos. On the flip side of your observation almost (key word) every guy I’ve met that’s married is f’ing miserable. Nothing worse than listening to some married guy talk about how he has to get permission to buy something or run it by his wife or anything similar makes me shake my head. Then when you listen to the divorce stories they are even worse. So I cringe when the saps come out of the wood work to try and convince themselves by trying to convince others that married life is awesome.

 

Nope. You are correct. She does it out of spite, and to me that’s despicable. In no way am I defending the cheater, but the spiteful spouse who takes it upon themselves to dole out “advice” to random people on the internet is ALSO a horrible person. The cheating husband is wrecking ONE family. The social media queen takes part in the ruin of MANY families, indirectly. People should mind their own business, and not make the mistake of thinking all situations are the same. Plenty of marriages survive infidelity. Some are even better AFTER a lot of repair work is done. Many times kids are involved. The person I’m speaking of makes DAILY comments to women telling them how to financially destroy their husbands and wreck their careers, if possible. Yet......she stays with her own cheating husband. I guess that widebody pay is just too much to part with, but it’s ok to suggest it to other women.

 

I'll second that opinion. Wife sold her car so I could afford to work at airline number 1, now out of business. Put up with my being on the road and coming home tired and sometimes cranky and she still manages to home school the girls with an absentee husband who had 2 airlines, a corporate pilot layoff and thousands of hours as a CFI.
21 years and counting. Some just choose badly, I didn't.