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Old 03-09-2020, 08:03 PM
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I would second getting a degree not related to aviation. If you're not working during college, finishing in 3.5 years is not a problem at all. Getting a double major in 4 is very doable.

If your parents don't think becoming an airline pilot is a good career, I respect that. THEY shouldn't become airline pilots. Live your life. Despite all of the negativity you will find on this board and elsewhere, compared to the vast majority of careers it stacks up very well. At the regionals, FO wages can support a family, CA wages can provide a great lifestyle, and it just gets better at mainline. Was it better in the past? - yes. Is it still a great career choice?- yes.
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Old 03-11-2020, 01:54 AM
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Hey guys, i want to be a airline pilot but my parents thinks there's no job security, low pay and your life is at risk all the time. I really can't see myself doing anything else to be honest. Any advice would be appreciated.
I was much in the same position early in my flying career and ended up working in other fields through my 20's only realizing how miserable it was. I didn't start taking flying lessons until my late 20's and finally became a CFI at the age of 30. I've been flying ever since, but regret not starting sooner and having the financial resources available at a younger age.

Job security is MUCH better now than previous periods (especially the 1980's era of deregulation), pay has improved significantly along with safety. I've been flight instructing for over a decade and feel much safer with a student in the left seat than driving on the freeway sometimes.

The best plan of attack is to have another career as backup, maybe in STEM, IT, medical or some other field that is always in demand. Choose a double major (one in aviation and the other in some other field mentioned above) and avoid debt if possible. Be prepared to work harder than you ever imagined, sacrifice weekends/holidays and spend time away from home, living out of a suitcase.

Aviation is rewarding and enjoyable, but it is a job. The travel opportunities are incredible (especially if your are being paid at the same time) and you will experience quite a bit.
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Old 03-11-2020, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted by cfii2007 View Post
I was much in the same position early in my flying career and ended up working in other fields through my 20's only realizing how miserable it was. I didn't start taking flying lessons until my late 20's and finally became a CFI at the age of 30. I've been flying ever since, but regret not starting sooner and having the financial resources available at a younger age.

Job security is MUCH better now than previous periods (especially the 1980's era of deregulation), pay has improved significantly along with safety. I've been flight instructing for over a decade and feel much safer with a student in the left seat than driving on the freeway sometimes.

The best plan of attack is to have another career as backup, maybe in STEM, IT, medical or some other field that is always in demand. Choose a double major (one in aviation and the other in some other field mentioned above) and avoid debt if possible. Be prepared to work harder than you ever imagined, sacrifice weekends/holidays and spend time away from home, living out of a suitcase.

Aviation is rewarding and enjoyable, but it is a job. The travel opportunities are incredible (especially if your are being paid at the same time) and you will experience quite a bit.
thank you sir, I'm thinking about getting my bachelors in aviation and my master's in business or aviation management. What do you think?
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Old 03-11-2020, 10:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Fatcat View Post
thank you sir, I'm thinking about getting my bachelors in aviation and my master's in business or aviation management. What do you think?
Still just looking for anybody to agree with your plan.....
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Old 03-11-2020, 05:07 PM
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Still just looking for anybody to agree with your plan.....
hmmm... i don't need anybody's approval for my choice. I'm gonna do what's best for me.
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Old 03-11-2020, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Fatcat View Post
hmmm... i don't need anybody's approval for my choice. I'm gonna do what's best for me.
Yet you continue to seek it.
And continue to NOT listen to advice.
Good luck (sarcasm).
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Old 03-11-2020, 11:04 PM
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Originally Posted by pangolin View Post
This isn’t true of everyone. In my experience just a few.
Im one of the few!
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Old 03-11-2020, 11:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Fatcat View Post
thank you sir, I'm thinking about getting my bachelors in aviation and my master's in business or aviation management. What do you think?
Im glad you are not my kid, that was the dumbest thing Ive heard all year.
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Old 03-12-2020, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted by kevbo View Post
Im glad you are not my kid, that was the dumbest thing Ive heard all year.
I hope I don't become miserable like you. I'm sorry this career has been unfair to you. Now let me go cry in my 100k porche

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Old 03-12-2020, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted by PotatoChip View Post
Yet you continue to seek it.
And continue to NOT listen to advice.
Good luck (sarcasm).
You were really helpful. Maybe you should've became a career advisor rather than a pilot.
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