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Originally Posted by scambo1
You won't "get" being a dad until you see your baby...then, it's automatic. Congratulations!
Crying Baby Checklist:
(1) Pick them up and swaddle them. Swaddle means wrap them so tightly they can't move ... they like that. They've been bouncing around in your wife their entire existence so being "free" is about as foriegn to them as being on a spacewalk in Earth orbit would be to us. They prefer the secure feeling of being swaddled and bounced around a bit. My kids would instantly go to sleep if I held them kinda tightly sideways.
(2) Poop & or, Pee (they don't like that much either). Use caution. Humans get fart humor from birth and can butterfly kick a turd before learning any other skill. Be amazed when your kid's first real crack up sessions involve passing gas, even the girls.
(3) Hungry ... they eat a lot. Beg borrow or steal as much formula as you can carry from the Hospital. They get it as a promo to get you to buy that brand. Clean it out like a pilot grabbing the Starbucks packages at the Hotel.
(3a) Breast Feeding is better for the kid, better for the mommie and best of all, does not involve you ... enjoy your sleep and giggle at the sound the breast pump makes, it's OK to laugh at your wife if she does not catch you. The whole brest feeding thing takes a lot of calories which helps her slim down (she'll be self conscious that she does not look like Margot Robbie two weeks after ... tell her she does). My wife could kill two large pizzas and still went right back to 105lbs.
(4) Entertainment ... for the next couple of years you have the most adoring audience for your (stand up routine, music, hobby, etc ...) whatever you do is the coolest thing your kids will have ever seen. Enjoy these times. I am told they don't last long.
(5) Take trips to place you think you'll hate. Don't know if you are expecting a boy or a girl, but riding Dumbo the Elephant does not lokk dumb (if you are with your kid).
(6) Let your wife have time with her friends. Just wait until you have the kid for 48 hours straight ... you'll appreciate her more.
Enjoy the heck out of the whole experience ... it is the best part of life.