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Originally Posted by tnkrdrvr
And that’s why I’m happy to be retired and encourage no one to join.
The really sad thing is I can hear the briefer talking through these slides with a straight face.
The pendulum may have swung a little too far on this, but l don’t see the catastrophe others seem to here…it’s simple.
I (and maybe you) call my mom and dad “Mom and Dad.” But someone else may have been raised by grandpa, an uncle, be fostered, big sis, or may have two moms, two dads, or whatever. All this says is be sensitive to that and don’t push people away with language choices.
Similarly, forcing “Merry Christmas” on Jewish colleagues isn’t ill-intended at all, but often has a deleterious effect that doesn’t foster cohesion, but instead accents differences.
I remember when “women in combat roles” was going to bring down the services. I remember when “letting gays in” (in fact many had admirably served entire careers) was going to kill our military. Blah blah blah.
Soldiers, sailors, Marines and airmen fight and die for their buddy serving with them. And when it works, our system can make best buddies of an Alabama boy who’s dad is a Klansman and an inner-city Oakland kid. It’ll all work out, folks, just be kind to each other and accepting of people different than you are.