Why do you say that, don’t beat yourself up. I would say no divorce is caused by any one person. I mean say you cheated on her, so what? She at some point made decisions that caused you to cheat. Nobody wakes up in the morning and says, today is the day I am going to screw someone else.

Not true at all, but I see what you're trying to say.

I went through the exact same thought process. She was much more financially devastating than the divorce for me, however.

The two plus years I lived in a pretty decent apartment w my two kids are some of the best times I’ve had. It was a great way to spend “the in between years!”

Richard!!!

Been able to laugh out loud more lately than I have in a long time! Working toward mediation and amicable things.

Yeah, I shouldered all the blame myself for my marriage failing. I had tons of guilt about failing my kids and marriage. After LOTS of therapy I finally figured out there was plenty of blame to go around. It's never just one parties fault. I was in a much better place after realizing that fact.

My ex stabbed me and set me on fire. Seriously.

I didn't blame myself for ****. She thought she had been caught cheating, and tried to kill me then told the cops (that I called) that I had assaulted her.

Came out in the process that she had been screwing my squadron XO for the previous two years. She thought I had caught her when I asked if he has returned a tool he borrowed, but I was actually just looking for my router.

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But could she cook?

Well she tried to cook him from the sound of it...

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Just had seven weeks off, the most at home in 25 years of marriage. We weren’t sure we’d get along, but all went well and now I’m bidding to be home more.

Burned everything.

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