Man this almost seems like someone criticizing SAPA the way everyone is circling the wagons here.
Now I have had nothing but respect from 99% of my Captains. In fact, I had one that said something that some could consider inappropriate the night before, and he apologized for it the next morning and asked if I was offended. Never have I felt harassed in any of my IOE or Sim. Long ago I posted an experience with the 1%, and I was blasted the same as flyingjgirl is getting right now.
Guess what guys?? Male Captains won't do the same thing to other guys. I know weird concept. And with my experience, I never mentioned to anyone. It's really not something you want to brag about. So can some of this messed up crap go on with guys that you would never imagine? Yeah, I think so. Is it every Captain or Check Airman that we have? Nope. I have noticed that male pilots tend to push the boundaries with FA's more than female pilots. Maybe it's a respect thing, maybe it's because they know how much we have put into our career and don't want to risk it.
All I am saying is just because it hasn't happened to you, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Just because you haven't witnessed it, doesn't mean it didn't happen. And just because it isn't reported, doesn't mean it hasn't happened. Hell, after some of the "investigations" I have seen with the FA's that have reported stuff, I don't blame those that don't speak up.